The Logfile Navigator (https://lnav.org), a TUI for viewing log files, has support for opening logs on remote hosts via SSH in its latest version. See the following post for more information: https://lnav.org/2021/05/03/tailing-remote-files.html

As for integrating with a “genders” host DB, there’s no direct support for it. But, lnav is scriptable, so I’m pretty sure it’s possible to write a script that does what you want. I can help with that if post in the github discussion: https://github.com/tstack/lnav/discussions